Anyone’s husbands not having sex with them?

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My husband and I haven’t had sex since we’ve convinced. I’m 19 weeks. Losing my mind. He hasn’t pulled away in any other way, he’s still very huggy, touchy and kissy with me. I’m thinking it’s because I had some bleeding so far through out the pregnancy and it makes him nervous. 
Anyone else going through this?

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My hubby loves it, he says I feel different down there in a good way. it's more me that's never in the mood 😔

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My husband goes through long phases of just not wanting sex at all. We have done it twice since I got pregnant, which drives me crazy but eh. I don’t ever want to force him into it. It’s not that he finds me less attractive, hormones just react differently or he has work and baby stress.
I have told him that I will be very frustrated if I go to an appointment and they put me on bed rest or say no sex until baby gets here and we haven’t done anything in months already 😂 that’s how I got some on Valentine’s day lol

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We’ve done it a few times bc I whined about it so much, but for my husband, it’s a mental thing. He’s scared that something could cause us to lose this pregnancy (we’ve had multiple previous losses) and since we have a cerclage this time around, he’s extra worried about somehow damaging that. I think it’s sweet he’s so concerned, but I do miss connecting with him in that way. For now, we’re just doing other sexual things. Maybe once we reach the viability point, he’ll feel better about it. Either way, keep communicating with each other!

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I wish! 😂 I’ve had absolutely zero sex drive and he wants to every single day!

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im 19 weeks and have only had sex one time with my husband i had spotting and it scared him to the point he would rather just wait witch im 100% okay with .

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Mine loves looking at my giant tits but that’s about it! I’m hornier than he is’

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Unless I initiate..

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Same for me! We have had sex twice since we conceived. He's never in the mood but is also lovey and cuddly with me. Nothing else has changed. I tell him all the time that it bothers me but he still doesn't want to have sex. I had some bleeding off and on as well and I think maybe he's scared to hurt the baby.

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I had bad pains a couple weeks ago (nothing to do with sex) and he has had trouble since. depending on the position he might touch my belly and it's game over he starts thinking about hurting the baby. never had this issue with baby #1

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I think it might help to bring him to one of your OB appointments to help explain send and pregnancy to him. So he can ask questions and maybe put his mind at ease.

Anyone’s husbands not having sex with them?

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