Is it right for me to be upset?

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So I took my husband out to dinner on Sunday night because I knew we wouldn’t be able to go out on Valentine’s Day. All day today (Valentine’s Day) I made him cookies and thought maybe he would surprise me like he has in the past with at least a card or a flower or something.. but he didn’t. Nothing.

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be upset and tell him

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If you expected something you should have told him. Men aren’t mind readers, neither are we. And you both are married, his is yours and yours is his. You BOTH went out to dinner and celebrated it early. Just because you may have been the one who called for the reservation or planned doesn’t change the fact that you both celebrated it early. 
Don’t be petty.

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My husband got me a card but i got upset no chocolates. I told him no flowers but i never mentioned no candy. 
I dont know if men are sometimes just naturally dumb or what. I slept on the couch.

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Why would you be upset? You’re not entitled to any gifts. Why do women think they deserve gifts ? Reposting so I’ll stop getting so many notifications 🙄🙄

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Yes you have a right to be upset. Speaking from personal experience, the best way to address this is tell him how you feel && talk to him! Best of luck!

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People have been sold this myth that if we ask for something and get it...it somehow more than if someone knows what we want without asking. All that means is that they are psychic. If you ask for something and get it, the other person cares about you and wants to be responsive to your needs. I would suggest waiting a bit...And then figuring out what it is that you want. You are not a bad person for wanting what you want....if you decide that you want him to acknowledge you on holidays with tangible things ...then tell him That! I would HIGHLY suggest the 5 love languages book.

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Communication is key. I told my boyfriend all I wanted for Valentines Day was some flowers and a case of water(I was really thirsty lol). He came home from work with exactly that!

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I’d be upset and I’d tell him

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