i just dont know.

so we've been together for 2+ years. he was a virgin when we got together and he is about 2 1/2 years older than me. I've tried to help him explore new things, oral, handcuffs, toys, positions, dirty talk, ect. but lately things are falling short.

when we first got together we would sext ALL THE TIME. and when we finally started having sex it was like 3 times a day every day! it was great. sex was good ect.

it's very hard for me to introduce things to him as he is very close minded. and I wanna get into his brain so bad so that I can really show him how submissive I actually am.

he hates being called daddy, sir, or master. So I don't really know what to say during sex. and lately everything has been lacking. we have REALLY good sex like once every couple months.

I'm pregnant with our first and that's made things 10× worse. I just kinda feel unwanted..