How to love?!

I didn’t have a boyfriend for 7 years (I have 2 ex-boyfriend), during these years I just had sex with boys and also some friendship. Actually it is a little hard for me to have a romantic relationship. I rejected romance in these years.

Now I am dating for a month. In the first days we had sex. It is really good but not enough. It is important for me to have a relationship and being able to love again. After weeks our dates seems to be mostly because of sex. I was focused on sex and also we enjoy it.

My therapist advised me to avoid having sex till we build our relationship, it is somehow hard for me and I don’t understand how Not having sex will help me to love 🙂. Do you have any idea, how does love happen?