No privacy

I am really wishing we didn’t announce our pregnancy to anyone. We sent out Christmas cards to close friends and family and we don’t want anything on social media. However my MIL keeps tagging my husband and I in posts on Facebook saying how she hopes we’ll have a girl next time, and she gets so offended when we untag ourselves and ask her to remove the posts. And my grandmother keeps calling me or my father to complain that she should get to tell people and it’s not fair we don’t want to announce to the public yet. I know it’s exciting for everyone but I just want my privacy, I don’t think being pregnant is something I should have to share with everyone. I’m at my wits end. If we do chose to have a second child we will not be telling anyone because of how poorly they have behaved. Sorry for the rant!