doctors since 12

so I've been at the Dr since 12 and I haven't gotten seen yet and my husband is getting irritated and now he don't want to be here cause he needs to get his sisters I'm getting really annoyed by him lately and I can't deal with his shit anymore ladies what can I do I'm so frustrated I want to leave him but I feel I can't he only wants everything done his way his doctors he likes only it's alot of things that I can't stand with him anymore I don't know if it's the pregnancy or him and then he makes me chose between my family and him 😔😔