My Selfish Husband
My husband is a firefighter in Dallas and is trying to get stationed in the most dangerous area that’s farthest away from where we live. He wants to be busy, which I get. It gets boring sitting at the station.
I try to reason with him and tell him to choose a busy area that is safer/closer to home and he basically said “stop trying to boss me around I’ll go wherever the hell I want.”
My reasoning is, we have a 19 month and 4 month old and if he works closer it’ll be easier for him to get home and take over kids while I go to work. He doesn’t care.
I have spent the last 2 years working a shitty job because it was the only thing that was flexible enough for his work schedule so I could care for the kids and so I’m kind of offended that now that he’s getting permanently assigned he isn’t taking me into consideration at all.
Would you be pissed?
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