Long Distance Booty Call

Hey everyone,

So here's the gist of my situation. I met a guy in college and we hang out and had sex alot for the 4 years, but we were never in a relationship. He would actually hit me up everytime he fot out of a relationship. We both graduate and go our seperate ways.

Fast forward like 9 years and we have not spoken at all. He randomly FB messengers me right before Christmas and we start chatting. Just the basic catching up small talk. One thing leads to another and it turns into talking about the good ol sexy times, flirting, and some sexting. He hits me up for my birthday (5 days later) and then there is nothing again.

He reached out to me 2 weeks ago and asked me to come visit him. He lives in NYC and I live in Orlando. I told him that I have changed from college (I gained like 70lbs) and he looks just the same. I haven't shared any full length pictures of myself, just my face and part of me doesn't want him to become dissapointed in my apperance.

What do you think? Should I go?