What’s happening????

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I met this guy almost 2 months ago and we went out couple of times, but texting or talking to each other all the time, (he was really sweet and everything, he was even talking about really serious about dating or ever marriage) but the last two weeks something changed. He needs hours or even day to read my texts and answer, well I’m doing the same obviously because he’s doing, I’m not even texting first anymore, I act like I don’t care but I care. I’m not clingy at all, I just wanna know what changed. I mean, he was texting me or wanted to be with me all the time, even when I wasn’t answering or open his texts a little late, he was like ‘are you okay?’. 
Well anyway, what do you think guys? Am I overreacting or he’s not as interested as before?

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Classic start of ghosting. I’d move on, if it’s meant to be more then you won’t have to force it.

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I had a similar thing happen to me was going on for about 3 months, he was the one that sped things up and turned it into more of a “relationship” but not? Then all of a sudden was distant and what not. After a little bit I was like look, shoot it straight if you’re not interested or not down for this whatever just let me know, rather than leave me out here dangling. If you get no response you’ll know your answer, but if you get a response great, even if it isn’t what you want, it’s perhaps a little more clarity. I never really knew the real reason for the switch and yeah it’d be nice for closure but he just said he’d come out of a long term relationship before hand, thought it was what he wanted but it turned out it wasn’t. And it was ok. It sucked for a little bit. Just for personal reasons like, oh, but why wasn’t I the type or what you want, but you don’t always need to know these things. And in retrospect it wouldn’t have been a healthy relationship anyway, I was always so self conscious around him. I feel like once the doubt it there it’s kinda hard to come back from, and you gotta realise no one is worth that, you gotta do you. Good luck girlfriend 💕

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If you're unclear about his intentions, just ask, don't play games because you think he is too - that's childish.

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He probably thinks you’re not interested don’t play games if you want to talk to him talk to him

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ghosting you

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he has a gf. guarantee it

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Classic case of love bombing and then ghosting.  Talk to him or move on.

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He probably thinks youre not interested. Dont play mind games

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just talk to the guy.
everything ends because people don't communicate

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It is possible that something big has come I to his life, more work at work, harder classes at school, sick parent, etc. On the surface it does seem like he has lost interest. You should be upfront and just ask him about it. If he has no reason for it, it may very well be lack of interest. So, you will have to decide if that's ok with you.

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