Calling all men

So I’m in this group where ladies constantly ask “are you ok with your SO watching porn” or “if he watches porn he’s lusting over other women and not you” just stuff. So I want to know from a guys perspective. Why do you jerk off if your in a relationship? Answer their questions.

More attractive then your gf/wife?

Do you men think about it all the time?

I personally don’t care, if I’m not in the mood I’ll go tell him to yank it off.