okay so when i was about 14 i started.... experimenting with myself. i grew up in a southern baptist family so we didnt talk about anything like that. the forst time i saw my clit i burst into tears. i really thougjt i was growin a penis. i checked everyday to see if it was getting bigger amd thats when i really broke down. my family wondered why i was crying for like 3 days straight and i couldnt tell them that not only was i growin a penis but it was small. it wasnt untill one if my older friends was talkin about sex that i learned about a clit. it was a scary year for me....