My (future) ex-husband and I will be in the dissolution process very shortly. We have been split up since Thanksgiving, but it was time. I dealt with physical abuse once (grabbed and bruised me), sexual abuse for over a year (using me, having sex with me while I was blacked out drunk, and only caring about sex even after a mc) and constant emotional abuse for the past year or so (saying I was a terrible mother, going to ruin our daughter, calling me a cunt, etc). I broke after my mc in October, and knew it was time. I am SO much happier, but life is messy and confusing, too. My ex started dating his coworker less than a week after he moved out, and has had feelings for her for months. My entire family has said they saw how much he had changed in the past year, and how they knew he had fallen out of love with me so long ago; however, I am lucky and seeing the most wonderful, and caring man I have ever met. Life goes on, my daughter is happy, and healthy, and so very loved. My ex rarely sees her because of "work" but specifically has changed his schedule or made plans to spend with his gf even when it takes time away from his daughter. He is even not keeping her this weekend, while he goes to a family event for relay for life... so that he can take his girlfriend, and not his daughter. I know I made the right choice, and I will never let my daughter know how easily he chooses someone else over her. Life keeps moving, and things happen for a reason, right?