Me and my man have been together for almost three years, been with him most of my high school career. He’s my first sexual partner, but he has never made me orgasm. We’ve tried all types of things and I’m always left unsatisfied. Due to that I haven’t really been in the mood to have sex. He’ll ask for sex and I’ll say no or not right now but he’ll force himself on to me or guilt trip me into saying yes. And that pushes me away from him even more, I don’t feel like I know him anymore.

When I’ve talked to him about it he’ll change the topic, jokingly say it’s my obligation to have sex with him, or totally ignore my feelings. He’s the only partner I’ve known or trusted with my body. What should I do?

**Update**

I broke up with him, it was hard but I made it very clear that this was what was best for both of us. He took it very bad. But I hope he can use this as a learning experience and grow from it.