I just never feel horny. I’ve been with my, now fiancé, for 6 years and in the beginning we had sex all the time. Now for the last 3 years or so we go through these long cycles of nothing. He always says it’s because I don’t initiate. But I never want to initiate something that I’m not feeling up to. Sometimes I just do it because it’s been so long. I love him and we have a great life together which is far from boring. Although we are quite busy all the time and don’t have much time together. When we do I’m normally so tired and so is he. I’m only 25 so this can’t be normal :( does anyone have anything helpful to add?