My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now, and we are now expecting the arrival of our daughter.

With that being said, our relationship has had some rocky points. There’s been cheating, invasion of privacy, and stalking.

We are now absolutely sworn to honesty, but he swears I’m lying to him. Recently, he admitted to having feelings for a girl he works with. I told him to leave me, especially if he feels as if he’d rather be with her. He refused to say, but I saw him texting a friend about whether or not he wants to leave me for her. He also invited her to the baby shower.

As all of this makes me very uneasy, he’s now asking me every day to see my phone, or looking through it while I’m sleeping. I have nothing to hide, but it makes me extremely anxious because growing up I would always have my phone taken from me, and every little thing was held over my head. He says my anxiety is a “lame excuse” and says he would hand me his phone. So I randomly asked for it the other day, and saw him deleting stuff.

We are sworn to honesty, but something isn’t sitting right with me… Especially since he also accuses me of cheating constantly and never seems to believe where I am, even if he has access to my location.