anyone’s boyfriends/ husbands make them feel insecure sometimes? when i was talking to my boyfriend about how much weight i have to gain he made me feel like shit about it. i’m 5’1 and weighed 133 pre-pregnancy. I currently weigh 143. I don’t have any cravings and i don’t over due it when it comes to eating. I feel for like a pregnant person i don’t eat as much as i could get away with. I probably eat like twice a day and then snack. Today, he compared me to the “fit” moms on Instagram and their work outs and eating habits while being pregnant and i felt so insecure i stood quiet until i had to go to work. i feel so big but i know deep down i’m not as big as other pregnant women. I’ve always had insecurities about my weight and before i found out i was pregnant he was helping me lose weight. idk how to cheer my self up.