I know it’s my decision and I’m not really waiting on anything or anyone. Do I feel ready? Yes.

But just wanted advice on if I should with this guy I been seeing. I just don’t want to be inexperienced when I actually find the right guy. I know that shouldn’t be important but my last boyfriend didn’t want to continue being together because I was inexperienced and didn’t want to have sex. He wasn’t rushing me or anything but he said he really wants to have sex and can’t take being celibate while I figure it out. We were together for a year and a half.

I feel like this cycle never ends. One time or another I’m asked the question. They all say they understand but up to a certain point before they leave me because having sex is important to them.

I guess I want to know if it’s worth the wait. I would hate to wait and not end up with the person I waited for after having sex with them. I am ready to have sex. I want too but not sure if I should or wait.