Sex life frustrations

Hey ladies, wondering what to do to turn things around... I’m feeling frustrated that my sex drive is super low, to make matters worse, my hubby either goes straight to snoring sleep and jumps up if I touch him or he tries going straight to it... I did tell him a need more cuddle time and prep... still I don’t respond to the prep because I’m just so disconnected from the other nights. I know he loves me but when it comes to sex I don’t feel it. Any advice insights? I feel like sleeping in the living room rather than feeling so disconnected in bed plus woken up from random snoring. I have a 15 mo old