Does it hurt??

Right ladies tmi but I am so curious, I am almost 10 weeks pp and I’m just so scared to have sex, I got a swab to check for infection at 6 weeks and omg I hit the roof when the swab went in, now bearing in mind it’s like a flippin ear bud!!! So I’m super nervous. We have our first night out together this Friday night and he seems to have this idea that’s the night to party but I am so scared of the pain 😱😱 also want my birth control to kick in!! He said he will wear a party hat which is fine but I’m still terrified how do I overcome this?? I feel like I’ll never be ready lol.