*WARNING: LONG POST*

So my husband and I have been together for 6 years, 3 of those married. We have 3 animals a 2 year old lab, a 2 year old Boston terrier, and a 1 year old cat. We have a 10 month old son and lately cannot stop fighting. He doesn’t help around the house and throws a tantrum if I ask him to do anything. He works and I’m a stay at home mom, I 100% agree that I cook, clean, and watch our son while he is gone. But I also dont think it’s okay that I constantly have to pick up after him because he doesn’t want to put his dishes in the sink, clothes in the laundry, and his garage in the bin. He comes home and immediately gets on video games and then finds excuses for why he can’t change our sons diaper or feed him while I’m busy. Our lab has a sensitive digestive system, he CONSTANTLY has diarrhea. My husband cleans up if he poops in the house BUT I’ve told him we should get him food that will help with his sensitive stomach. I ALWAYS get shot down whenever I have a suggestion on anything ESPECIALLY when it comes to money. He doesn’t want me to get a job because daycare is too expensive and we are stable with just one income. But he complains if I spend $10, which I may add that I rarely spend money. My mom buys our sons diapers because it was her gift to us when he was born. She will do it until he is a year. But my husband spends tons constantly, which doesn’t bother me much. I feel like I can’t say anything anymore because the minute I talk he has some reason why he isn’t listening or I get shot down. I’m cooking, cleaning, taking care of our son and animals all alone. We barely talk anymore because he is on video games so much or on his phone(he isn’t cheating I trust him). But I honestly feel worthless in this relationship. And sadly, I don’t even know if he loves me anymore. I’ve thought about using our guest room as my bedroom because we just aren’t close. Anyway, I just needed to vent. I know this post was all over the place but Ive been keeping everything bottled from my friends because I apparently complain too much. My husband know how I feel about his actions. Thanks for listening.