Am i being ridiculous?!

Question

My boyf and I are temporarily living in different states. I get a bit sad and jealous when i see him hanging out with other girls, even though I know he is loyal and faithful to me. Whenever i bring it up he gets mad and thinks i dont trust him. Am i being silly?!

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Nah, my husband and I are currently States away due to my medical needs and him not being able to just up and leave work for so long. I got reaaallll pissy when he told me he was hanging out with a girl. I don’t think it’s appropriate for a man in a relationship to spend alone time with women he’s not related to🤷🏻‍♀️ now in a group setting I don’t mind. Just not alone time. I trust him not to cheat but I don’t know this girl. I don’t know her intentions and honestly he doesn’t need to be in a situation where he could be put into a potentially awkward/stressful situation if she came on to him.

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No you have every right and it would be the same if it were the other way around. I would be jealous too just because he's far away and I miss him. How do you bring it up to him?

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As a man who was married for 3 years and tempted very often, let me say that you should feel like he has no right to be mad. You're naturally going to feel scared or even jealous. That's not a bad thing. Listen to those feelings of jealousy. If you're feeling nervous about your MAN, most of the time it's for a good reason. Those times are key in a relationship. A man should affirm to his woman in those moments that she is on his mind and no woman could take her place. Just my thoughts.

Am i being ridiculous?!

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