I have been married for 12 years. I love my husband to pieces. But when we go visit his mom he cleans up after himself. He takes out the garbage. He makes up the bed. He picks his clothes up. He rinses his dish before he puts them in the sink. He even rinses out the sink after he brushes his teeth. When she asks he jumps. Don't get me wrong I love this about him-BUT- He isn't that way at home. I am a SAHM with a 7, 6 and 4 year old kids. I do every thing. Cook, clean, grocery, homework, and practices. He Works. My point to all this is at home I have to ask him to take out the garbage. He leaves snack bags and beer bottles on the countertops instead of placing them in the garbage. I have to ask him to not leave his socks in a ball when he takes them off. I have to ask him to no leave his clothes inside out when he undresses, like when he wears 2 shirts and takes them off at the same time. He makes the bed up maybe 5 times a year. He will cook on the grill but doesn't do sides. If I don't put the left over food up it will sit out all night. Many of steaks and pizzas have been thrown out lately 😕 I have to mention that he tracked mud in and think maybe he didn't see it. What really ticks me off is when he gets out of bed he leaves a pillow down in the sheets from where he sleeps with it between his legs, I have to fish that shit out just to make up the bed. I have mentioned these little things that turn me red more times than I can remember. At home he doesn't clean up what so ever. Believe me if I don't do it. It doesn't get done. When I am sick or out of town this ship goes down. Before to long I will be going back to work. Is that going to be something to add on to what I have to do or should I expect him to step up. Am I wrong for this to be so irritating.