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Question

What do you do when you find out that the mother of your partner’s children is crossing the line? 
My boyfriend called me the other day to tell me that his ex and baby mama told him she still loves him. This is the third time she’s done this. 
He continues to tell her that their relationship is over. He no longer feels that way about her. He also tells her that he loves me, and is happy with me. 
I’m glad that he talks to me about this stuff, but it’s hard for me.  It’s hard for me to meet this conversation with anything but anger. I feel disrespected by her. I know that anything I confront her with will be viewed as weakness or insecurity by her. 
How do you handle this sort of situation?

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i agree with Dessi! BOTH of you need to address the fact that she is being inappropiate. For example next visit or pick up your hubby should with you at his side tell the baby mama..."I told my wife about all the times you tell me you still love me and I need you to understand that I have moved on and the focus needs to be on our kid. I'm telling you this in front of her so you understand that the relationship you and I had has been over and I have moved on. please respect that because I don't want to have this conversation again." it will put her in her place and if that convo ends up in court your hubby could say he was establishing focus on the kid because she was not.
my hubby did this with his baby mama beca use she was nothing but drama.

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The fact that you two are both upset is a good thing. He's talking to you AND telling her no. You BOTH should talk to her, together. So that was you show as a united front and its not a weakness for you. 
But honestly, what she's doing is wrong.

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Believe me, the ex wife calls me "the whore" and never refers to me by my name. They went infront of a mediator for a custody agreement and she did nothing but bad mouth me in front of them, as well as crying and acting like a spoiled brat telling them that my engagement ring is bigger than hers was and blah blah blah. I won't lie- it gets to me. but I also know that she does and says the stuff she does because she WANTS a reaction, she wants that constant back and forth and we don't give it to her. I try to just let it go and know that half the crap she spits is lies and the other half is a distorted form of the truth. Hang in there.

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He needs to address it. Tell her it’s inappropriate and she should only be communicating about the child

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