Should i apologize?
Hubby and i went to the store , i picked this candy and i was showing it to him that those were my favorite, he cut me off in front of ppl.
I didnt like that. But didnt say anything because it not really a big deal! When we got home he started being romantic with me etc... then i said bae i didnt like how u cut me off at the store, im not mad or anything im just letting you know that i dont like that, and i have done this to u by accident and u havent like it either so i know u understand me... he said “Ay u always complaining about everythin, nd i said .. bae im not complaining just having a convo with u and lettinh u know? .. he says.... well dont... i turn my back on him and he pull me gentle to apologize and said that he dont want me to turn my back on him no more, so i said “well dont act like that when all im doing is talking to u calmly and letting u know how u made me feel... and he says... i told u dont turn ur back on me ever again. .. so i said again .. then dont act like that... he then stood up infront of face and said with high voice “DONT EVER TURN UR BACK ON ME OR I WILL SLAP YOU” he went to the living room and im over here in the bathroom about to shower... should i go to him and apologize for turning my back on him?? I feel like if i do that im preventing this for getting worst.. but at the same time he should be the one to apologize to me for threatening me right?
I KNOW I SHOULDNT BE THE ONE TO APOLOGIZE BUT I FEEL THAT AS A WIFE I SHOULD BE OR AT LEAST TRY TO BE THE ONE THAT CALMS US BOTH DOWN.. AND PREVENT AN ARGUMENT TO GO BIGGER AND WORST THAN IT ALREADY IS ... ??
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