Y'all I've had some problems recently with my husband really pushing the lines of what "falls under me". I'm seriously bad OCD so I have no issues cleaning the house everyday, laundry, making beds, cooking and dishes, taking the dog for runs (cause we live in an apartment and have no yard) or cleaning cars What gets me is I still make time for workouts, spending all day playing with our son who is three months old now and laying things out with my husband so he can walk in the door and change and do nothing basically. He's gotten spoiled by everything I do and now calls me everyday to do some random task that "needs to be done right now if you can". Also he wants me to get a stay at home job on top of that. I can most certainly do it all but it's tough to when it's never recognized and he has a day off or at night and won't even want to hold our kid when I hand him over thinking he might want some one on one time. But he always says how much "he loves you more". Well duh! I spend 24 hours a day with him. I have a job opportunity that I've already delayed a year for our family to get better rooted somewhere and that our son would be off the boob when I started. He keeps saying how much he wants me to pursue this job but then says we should only focus on his careers future. Mine doesn't need to go anywhere cause it doesn't make financial sense. It's my dream job that I could be making serious bank on if he'd just give me the chance. I tell him I'm feeling a little controlled and he says I'm acting like a child. I don't know what to do. Am I crazy about all this or is he being kinda unreasonable?