Hubby and I have been ttc it’s been a little over a year and one MC. Well we finally went and did fertility tests and everything came back normal for me. Now we’re waiting for hubby to get his tests done. I don’t know what to do or say to him anymore bc since we found out I’m okay he keeps putting himself completely down about it and I keep telling him that we don’t even know yet and if it comes down to something big being wrong I’m still here regardless I’m not going anywhere, there are different options/roads we can take if it comes down to that for a family. And when I was scared about my tests he would tell me the same... well now the roles are switched so he just keep telling now that if something is wrong he’s just going to leave me... how can yu even say that to someone yur so in love with that yur trying to start a family, how could yu say that to someone that has been going the extra 50miles to try and help us have s family, how could yu say that ? I understand he’s scared.. but the thing is, I’m pretty sure he means it.. so now I’m supposed to sit around and wait til his appointment to know if he’s still going to be with me or not ? That’s bullshit. I’m so pissed off and upset all at the same time over this... I dont know what else to say or do and I don’t know how to feel over this. Anytime I bring it up he shuts down won’t speak for a minute and completely changes the topic.. this isn’t fair, this isnt okay, this makes me feel sick to my stomach....

any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.. like I said I don’t know what else to do or say or even how to go about this anymore....