I'm a step mom of a 15 year old and 14 year old boys. The youngest one has started to masturbate. One day he left the main bathroom( this is the bathroom everyone showers in and all guest use, as well as my 10 year old daughter) he had made a mess all over the floor and toliet. I made him clean it, and his dad talked to him about it. But today I found porn in the drawer in the vanity where we have extra toothbrushes and flossers . I was going to throw it away, but I left it. His dad needs to take care of this. I'm I wrong for not wanting porn in my bathroom? I was never a teenage boy clearly. I get it they do this but do they have to make it known to everyone that lives in the house? and make everyone have to deal with the mess all the time? I need help am I'm over reacting and going to make my husband made for freaking or am I justifiable upset?