So, after divorce, my two choices are... return to active duty military. Where my daughter will either be watched with my sister who will move with me or daycare / early preschool program...

Or... move back in with my parents/family... work overnight.

Reason I want to return to the military is because of medical and housing benefits... but just worried about time away from my daughter, as I wasn't planning to go back to the army while having a baby...

But if I work a normal civilian job from the get-go. Planning to do medical work overnight so I can have time with her in the day, I wouldn't be able to afford living alone OR wouldn't have anyone to watch my daughter while I go to work.

Idk what to do...

Time, making memories is whats most important to me...

She'll be 2-3 at time of divorce.