Men and anal?? Dildo??

Question

I’ve only ever had one relationship my whole life. Is it normal for guys wanting to have anal foreplay on themselves before sex? 
We had bought a dildo and my man wants me to use it on him.. I found this so odd but I did anyway cause I’m married and want to please him.
Anyway itsnot every single time but he does asks for it.. is this normal ?
Do all guys ask for that?
I mean we’ve tried anal on myself and I know for the most part guys ask the female that cause I’ve asked other females but I won’t dare ask anyone else since the page has flipped I feel embarrassed so I figure to post on here since there’s so many females
Don’t need negative comments I just need opinions on if it’s normal or not
Like I said this has been my only relationship in my life I’ve been married for 6 years now

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It’s not normal as in common for a man to express that to a female partner because our society stupidly shames a man for wanting his asshole played with. But it can be very stimulating and pleasing.

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No, not all guys ask for it. BUT,
It’s not abnormal for a man to want or be into anal play.

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Sure. Yep. It's nornal. Sex is pretty cool no matter how you do it. *clings to bottle* Next time try the Love and Sex room.

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I mean my ex fiancé always wanted me to put something up his butt... then cheated on me with 7 men on Craigslist. I can’t even make this shit up. 
But I’ve heard of several couple where the men like anal stimulation and they are fine and dandy. I guess guys have like a g spot up there that women don’t have. So I mean it does make sense. Not something I’m into, but to each their own you know?

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What’s normal for you may not be normal for me. That’s the great thing about sexuality, it can be different for everyone. In a healthy relationship people feel comfortable discussing what they like and don’t like without a fear their spouse is going to post on social media questioning how ‘normal’ they are. Seems to me the only abnormal part of this is that you would be more concerned about other people thinking your intimate moments with your husband are ‘normal’ and less about supporting his wants sexually especially when they don’t degrade or hurt you in any way. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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It sounds like he’s curious and if u don’t get into it and act like u love doing that shit he might try to find someone that does. Girl u better invest in a strap on and get kinky lol

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I don’t know if guys asks for it or not that’s why I was asking since I’ve only been with one man my whole life so o was just curious if other guys asks for it also? That’s what I was curious about. Just like when girls ask every other question their curious about. 
I wouldn’t ask if I been with other men in my life time so that’s why I ask on this post since everyone is with other partners. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Thanks for everyone’s comments

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Never been in that  situation, or have heard this from any  other women in my life.  So not sure it's  common.

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I fund it odd and not for me but its not my place to say whats right or wrong when it comes to someone’s sexual preferences. The important thing is that you and him, both feel comfortable.

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it's not common but there's nothing wrong with it.. it's a good thing he's opening up to you and telling you what he wants/likes. if you feel comfortable with it then try it out!!

Men and anal?? Dildo??

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