There is too much happening right now

The other day my therapy counselor told me, "I recommend having 1 life changing event a year, at most." And I sit there dead pan, but internally I start saying, 'Well I had to quit my high maintainance job and move into a new apartment with my fiance to stay away from people that stress me out. I ran out of medications that I can not function without. I just happen to get pregnant, so we got married so my fiance could support me and a kid while in the military. And now we have to plan a move across the continental U.S. at the same time this child is expected to be born. And my grandmother is being unfair because I'm choosing not to breastfeed. So yeah life clearly didn't want me to take it slow with the 1 change per year.'