so my bestfriend lives 30 minutes from me and we mostly keep in contact online bc she doesnt come over that often, she messages me "should i just put you on do not disturb bc we dont talk anyway" even though i try to keep in contact with her as much as i can, im busy with school half the time and the other time my mental health makes me close off people for a few days, but shes the only one i talk to, she pulls thiz card every few months saying im a bad friend, we skype, i cry, she says my mental health doesnt exist and im just ignoring her, i dont mean to, i talk to her everytime im not busy, and its mentally draining trying to keep up with her love life and my school work when all i want to do is sleep. am i the one in the wrong? i feel so bad.