So my boyfriend and I have been together since October but really have gotten more serious in the past like two months. Well last night he told me he needs me to understand that he’s never going to get married, he’s planning on getting a vasectomy because he hates kids and doesn’t want them, and he’s never going to own a pet. We were drinking at the time and in that moment I said I could be willing to compromise on it and moved on but... I can’t compromise on any of those things. And now it’s eating me alive. And he’s out of town so I just have to sit in these feelings till he gets home. I’m so upset and I know it’s the right decision but that doesn’t make it any easier. I fell really hard for him and I don’t want to do this. I just feel like an asshole because he was honest with me and I wasn’t honest with him... I guess it’s better to do it now rather than later. The anxiety is just tearing me apart though 😢