Do your boyfriend/husband throw up in your face what he does for you and yall's family?

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Everytime my fiancé and i get into an argument he says really hurtful things and throws up what he does or have done & what i dont do . He provides for our family while i stay at home with our 10 month old and is currently 20+3 pregnant with our second son! Its like he wants to be praised for what he's suppose to do as a man

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Anyone talking about gender roles in this situation.... smh. You can’t talk about anything without ppl trying to put words in your mouth. He’s supposed to step up as a man in regards to work. Work could be at home or somewhere else; as a stay at home dad or a mechanic either way NOBODY was talking about gender roles

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When someone does something for someone else and they do it from the heart they don’t have the need to brag about it. Maybe he’s just not feeling appreciated.

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Nope and if my husband did that we'd go rounds. Because he works his ass off, and he comes home and helps me. But I also work my was off raising our 3 kids and working from home. We are a team and are equal. He shouldn't be throwing anything in your face. Raising kids is a full time job in itself.

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I’m not married but that’s a red flag. My mothers ex husband used to do that and they ended up not so well.

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I don't believe in gender roles completely as roles change all the time especially in this day and age. What I do believe in is if you're doing something for someone it's because you chose to.... after all no one put a gun to his head. Your S/O needs to calm down and realize you are helping just as much as he is albeit not financially. I would remind him every time he brings up what he does that I do just as much. This seems disastrous honestly.

Do your boyfriend/husband throw up in your face what he does for you and yall's family?

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