Am I being unreasonable?

my little one is just over 1 and I have changed profession just so it meant I could work monday-thursday 8-4:30 and my partners works Friday 10-10:30 & Saturday and Sunday 6-6:30, meaning we don't have to pay for child care: £48 a day. I've just had him on the phone saying he's took him to a child care place today to see how he is and he is going next week for a few hours, then every week for a day!

when have you consulted me? yes I get my little one would benefit from being around others but once a month maybe yes? why should I not get a break but he warrants a day child free every week cause he's tired after working three days? why should we folk out £194 off child care whilst he sits at home? May I add whilst I'm at work monday-thursday no housework gets done, I come in and have to wash their pots from dinner and make tea, then at a weekend when I am off with my little one I have to scrub all the house, change all the sheets, wash and dry and iron and put away all the clothes. but he's tired?

I might be over reacting as I expecting another bundle of joy. but i am so pissed off with him going behind my back.