How to deal with a heartbreak? You actually have to love the people who are in a relationship. So do you love him? Do you love yourself? If u can look in the mirror and like what u see then you can say you are having a heartbreak. But if you looked in the mirror and saw you and him standing there and you did not like something that you saw then you weren't in love to begin with. So no. There is no heartbreak. Why waste tears on someone you don't even know and love? Why waste someone else tears? You don't even know you! If you learn you then you'll learn to love. And most importantly you will be able to learn about how to deal with heartbreaks. (You don't actually deal with them because you are so in love with yourself and the woman you are they will call you heartbreaker, js)