So my husband and I have had our issues. Who hasn’t? But recently we’ve really been build things up. We’ve just be so great lately! No fighting, and he’s just so sweet to me in every way possible recently. Then tonight came... He is active duty in the army, and he had a really rough day at work today from what he told me. I also, had a tough and stressful day with multiples things. We still got along, but it was just quieter in the house from everyone’s stress. I came home from getting some fast food, because we were just too tired and cranky to do any cooking or shopping. He had asked me how my day went. I began to explain to him the stress I dealt with all day. He then says, “Please, no negativity.” So I apologize and just remain quiet while he’s eating and I’m getting ready to eat my food. He then asked what was going on with my car. So I begin to tell him about my car needing to be taken to the shop for a few repairs for the second time this week because they didn’t resolve the problem with the first repair. And out of nowhere he starts screaming at me. Saying I’m an idiot and telling me I’m useless and dumb. I then said, “Where is this coming from?” And he goes on saying I was blaming him for my car’s issues and how I apparently was putting it all on him. Just to summarize what’s going on with my car up, my grandfather is taking care of the payment for the repairs, and he’s the one helping me with everything. My husband has no involvement in any of it, and didn’t even know about any of it until this moment. So I genuinely have no clue where he’s getting any of this from. I then tell him, “I literally have no idea what you’re talking about. But let’s just drop it because these things you’re saying aren’t true, and this is nothing to argue about. I have it taken care of.” He then picks up my food, the only food I had all day since we haven’t been shopping, and throws it all over our bedroom and starts screaming louder while calling me names and throwing things. I begged him to just calm down, and relax. But he wouldn’t stop. He was slamming doors, throwing things, and put a hole in our bedroom wall. I then tried to convince him to just calm down again, and asked him to just talk to me because our 2 year old son was sleeping one room over. But he continued screaming and calling me names. He then ran out of the house and sat at the end of our street. He came back a few minutes later in a friend’s truck. He came inside, with his friend, packed a bag full of things, and said he was leaving. At this point I’m sobbing, I have no idea what is exactly going on. He then leaves with his friend, and minutes later texts me saying, “I swear on everything you’re out of here this weekend and I’m filing for a divorce.” I reply asking him what happened and what this was all about, but he only replies with, “Just leave me alone. We’re done. We are getting a divorce and that’s final.”

I have been sobbing since. Everything was so amazing, and I genuinely have no idea what just happened between us. It’s like he just randomly went insane.

Please, someone help me! I really don’t understand what’s going on tonight.. 😔💔