Background: I'm in a triad with two other girls, one is my primary and the other we jokingly call my bonus girlfriend because she was dating my primary when we met.

Brief rant on how people are sometimes flipping impossible. I normally don't get involved with my girlfriends' relationship because my own relationships with them are enough. But so last night I'm out drinking and Bonus is upset because her best friend moved away that day and she says twice that Primary being mad at her isn't helping. I'm like, "there's no way Primary is mad at you for leaving trash at her house yesterday. That's so not like her at all." But she's convinced.

So I text Primary like "yo, are you mad at Bonus?" and she says no, she was a little irritated that Bonus didn't help clean but that was it and she was over it in a few hours anyway. "Can you please tell her this??"

I promised both of them that I wasn't going to make this a habit but it was such an easy fix. Goddamnit, women, just use your words. I told Bonus that if I knew one thing about Primary, it was never to assume. Maybe next time she'll ask.

Talk to your partners, people!!