Photoshoot question..

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My aunt is a photographer. She had her own studio and everything before she moved back home. In the past I have had her take pictures for things like my senior prom, my wedding, ect. The only problem is that I never see them. She will take them and go home to edit them and I never get them. I know she expects to take my maternity photos and newborn photos. But this is something I actually want to keep. Not something I just want done and to dissapear. So how do I tell her that without sounding super mean??