Ttc 11 months why is it not happening?

Danielle

Ok so I'm feeling a bit low today as af has arrived. We have been trying for 11 months. My cycles are average 35 days which is why I went to the doctors and had some hormone tests run, they came back normal. My partner has also had his sperm tested and results are good. Why is this not happening? I'm definitely ovulating and we are having sex at the right times and enough of it! I know it takes a lot of people this long but I just feel with my 35 cycles something just isn't quite right. Ive posted on here before as well that I know af is coming at least 7-10 days before, I have light cramps for the whole week leading up to af arriving so it's never really a surprise. I don't know if this is a sign that something is wrong. There's not a week that goes by where someone doesn't make a comment about us having kids or pregnancy comments. When we started trying I didn't think it would be easy or happen straight away but I really hoped I wouldn't be here 11 months down the line. I know people have been trying a lot longer and I don't know how you keep going. Any tips for keeping positive? Now I know we won't have a baby in 2018 it's hard. Just venting I guess 😞 x