I am getting ready to do something that I said I would never do. My husband really wants another baby and we have been trying for almost 2 1/2 years. About a year ago we had a misscarrage and a chemical pregnancy in December. I gave my husband a time line and I told him that at 40 I will be tieing my tubes. I also told him that having a baby would have to happen naturally and I am not going to see any doctors. But after seeing how much he really wants this I decided to go and talk to a doctor. If there's any ladies on here from Jersey (south) it would be helpful if you could refer me to some great fertility doctors that can make it happen with in 2 1/2 years.