Okay, so first of all, this post is gonna be about casual sex. I take birth control, use condoms, and have regular checkups, so I’m having safe sex.

Long story short, I matched with this guy on tinder. Come to find out he’s a virgin, which is cool. I’ve had 5 partners by 21, he’s 19 and obviously hasn’t had any... He asked me to take his virginity. Now. I’m not against this for the whole “he’s a virgin so he won’t be good” thing and all that. I’m concerned about him regretting the decision to sleep with a stranger for the sake of losing his virginity. I guess I hold on to the belief that it should be meaningful, especially if it’s the first time.

I’m having a hard time saying no to him too. He genuinely just wants to lose it and move on. What should I do?