A few days ago, I started doing it with my boyfriend of three and a half years. It was a first time for both of us, and so far it's been great. It doesn't just feel good for us, but it's so intimate and I just love the feeling of being a part of each other.

But I have a question.

I tried the cowgirl position. Now, it felt good for me, and he said it was great afterward, but um. Tonight, we talked some more about that position. And. Well. I don't think I'm doing it correctly.

I feel so stupid and clueless and I am old enough to know this bs! Someone freaking help me because I'm dying inside. I've always been a f*ck-up and I just don't want to let him down.

Basically: cowgirl tips? (I BEG OF YOU)