have you ever been raped/sexually abused? if so, what did you do?

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I know this seems like a really weird question to ask, but after the #MeToo became popular, i realized a lot of girls i knew and were friends with were assulated/raped/taken advantage of. the guy i lost my virginity to raped me after he got me cross faded with weed laced with Xanax but it didn’t occur to me that it was rape until i told an older friend of mine and she told me. i thought it was my fault it happened because i put myself in that position so i never said anything. anyone else???

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I was sexually abused as a child, didnt tell until i was 13 (a few years after the abuse stopped) and put his ass in prison.

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I went to a party for my 16th birthday and had too much to drink. I went and layed down in the bedroom cause I wasnt feeling well.Roughly 20 mins after I went in there a close friend of mine came in and asked if I was ok, I told him I wasnt feeling well and drank to much and wanted to go home. He proceeded to undress me and kiss me, I tried to push him off but I was too drunk, he raped me and then left me there while he stood outside talking to two of his other friends, who paid him to let them do the same thing to me. I tried to yell for help but I was too intoxicated and they were pinning me down. 
I'm now 20, and this will be the first time I've ever told my story.

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I was sexually abused as a kid by my mom's bf and foster dads. after the first couple times I tried to tell someone and no one believed me. it wasn't until I was 5 and my new social worker said I had signs of sexual abuse and also started showing signs of depression. I have always had the mentality of just keeping my mouth shut so when my ex raped me/assaulted me our whole relationship I never told anyone cause I felt it was my fault and that we were in a relationship so how could it be rape.

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I've been sexually assaulted and raped several times,  starting from the age of 9. I started to expect it and stopped fighting,  I just went numb. It's something I still carry with me and really wish I had said something to someone but where I'm from, nothing would've been done,  not to them. Now,  I make sure to always be open with my kids,  I ask questions,  I start conversations,  I'm on their social media accounts,  just hovering if you must but I wanna make sure they never have to endure the type of pain I have endured for years.

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I was sexually abused from age 10-13 by a neighbor in his 30's. His father (whom he lived with) caught him in the act. I was so embarrassed/scared that I lied and denied it, telling my parents nothing happened. I guess his dad was afraid his son would go to prison, so they packed up really quick and moved States. I'm 27 and still live with this sick feeling. I have memories that make my skin crawl. At 15 I was prescribed Prozac, now I take Paxil. Pretty positive my depression/anxiety stems from that incident.

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I lost my virginity by being raped as well and didn’t realize it was rape until a friend told me it was. :(

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I was raped and molested for a year when I was 9 by my dads friend who watched me after school. I told them and they didn’t believe me 🙃 but my doctor was doing a physical for school and noticed bruising so the guy was investigated and put in prison. I was raped at a party when I was 16 and told my friends and boyfriend. 99% of my friends didn’t believe me and told everyone that I cheated on my boyfriend with him and was lying about being raped. Told my parents and they said lawyer fees are too expensive so don’t report it. Obviously I didn’t feel comfortable reporting after that.

have you ever been raped/sexually abused? if so, what did you do?

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