So I know how to kiss but how do you kiss?

I’ve kissed guys before and majority kiss like *peck-tongue-peck-tongue*

But I’ve kissed two guys who kiss like

*peck-peck- tongue-tongue-tongue*

And literally just sword fight with tongues for a while and peck peck and then sword fight again. Like ???

First guy who did it i was like um no. Now the guy im seeing kisses like that and I’ve gotten used to it but it’s weird to me !