I on the other hand started off enjoying mines until my dad annoyed tf out of me. My bf & I have been together for 7 yrs, this will be our 1st child. My dad gave me an envelope with money in it at the shower, I didn’t have pockets on my dress so I told my bf to put it in his pockets. My dad seen it & harassed me all fucking night about it. Even as I’m trying to entertain guests, he’s coming to me asking wheres the envelope & why did I tell my bf to hold it. I was embarrassed. At that point I was over my shower & ppl wanted to take pics & my smile wasn’t even genuine anymore. Like he literally came to me 7 different times to ask about that damn envelope. I understand it’s money but it shouldn’t be a issue that i had my bf hold it. He’s not a thief & we live together so that shit really pissed me off