Too much milk for my 1MO

My baby is 1MO I think he drinks too much formula. He drinks 4oz he will cry if I don’t give him more. I dont like giving him anymore if I feel he has had enough. If I don’t he will cry and cry. I have tried giving him the pacifier two different kinds and h hates them he will spill them out and get mad. I like to give it to him because it soothes them and calms them down but not with him he don’t like them. Sometimes I’ll give him again but there’s times he won’t drink anything and just keep the bottle in his mouth then fall asleep. And leave all the milk to waste. Idk what to do. Should I buy him another pacifier? I know it’s a lot of milk for him. And my husband tells me just feed him until his full. But then the doctors tell you don’t give them too much because they’re belly is small and it can stretch.