I've been ttc for a long time, and we finally got into a fertility clinic. There are a bunch of tests that we have to do before they recommend a treatment. I have done all the tests that I can do, but my husband just can't produce a sperm sample. He says that he can't do it if he feels pressure or has to produce it at a certain time. I've done everything possible to accommodate him, I've had to call numerous clinics to get an appointment, we've had to cancel an appointment, they've given us the option of producing it at home and bringing it in, and he still can't do it. It is making me paranoid that he's had a vasectomy and isn't telling me. He has two kids with previous relationships, but I have no kids of my own, and he doesn't seem that upset when my period arrives month after month. I've now ordered a home fertility test, and am going to demand that he takes it, if he can't produce the sample at our next appt. I've told him that I would just relax if he can do this last test, and we can finally get a proper appointment.😔