am I trying to much? I had a missed misscarriage with my first baby in October last year, been trying ever since, this month I feel pregnant I feel how i did last time but am I trying to convince myself. I did a test 2 days ago (early as I'm not due on until Wednesday) however it was negative...am I trying to convince myself that I'm having the cramping and feeling sick.... I feel heartbroken still and it hurts so much every time I come on. Can anyone give me any advise?