To paint or not to paint??

Kasi • 26. Dog mom. Nurse. Police wife. PCOS. TTC #1 since March 2017. Starting IVF soon.

I really love farmhouse style, and want to paint our cabinets white. But my husband is on the fence because we have only been in out house about 3 years and it was brand new when we moved in. He thinks we should leave them as is just case we decide to move in the future (which I'm not planning on), because it will "depreciate the value". We would also redo the backsplash (probably subway tile) if we paint the cabinets. I need opinions!!