I'm done being nice to y'all. I have seen three blatantly positive tests in the last hour. Stop. posting. them. here. this is the WRONG GROUP. and there is a REASON FOR THAT. If youre unfamiliar with that reason it goes something like: some of us here have been ttc for months. even years. a lot of us are ttc after loss. we hope and pray for those positives. we cry everytime the line doesnt come up. personally, I've cried about ten different times this cycle alone. I went from a VFL to a BFN. the emotional toll is breaking me down. as it is doing to a lot of other womens. WHEN YOU POST A POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST IN A GROUP FULL OF WOMEN JUST GRASPING AT FAINT LINES YOURE BEING SELFISH AND INSESNITIVE. you are waving a baby in our face saying,"look how good for ME. isnt it nice to be ME. I'm pregmant and you arent." we have to put on brave faces all the time. smile at the pregnant mom. wave at the new baby. swallow down that rock in our throat. this is the ONE PLACE we dont have that staring us in the face. so for the love of all that is holy, stop posting blatantly positive pregnancy tests in a place for us all to cry together over negative tests. we get that youre excited. but were heartbroken. go to your group and let us have ours. I don't care if this sounds bitter. I am bitter. and I'm crushed. and drained. I lost my child. and the last thing I need are people who cant read directions coming in here with no regard for anyome else.I'm not going to be nice about it anymore. if youre insensitive to the rest of the women ttc I'm going to be insensitive to your happy news.